"The meaning of the expression 'cross yourself' is clarified in other scriptures. For example, 3 Nephi 12:30 says: 'For it is better that ye should deny yourselves of these things, wherein ye will take up your cross, than that ye should be cast into hell.' In Matthew 16:24 the Savior says, 'If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.' Both of these scriptures indicate that to 'cross yourself' means to deny yourself. In the Inspired Version of the New Testament the Savior makes it absolutely clear that this is the meaning of the term: 'And now for a man to take up his cross, is to deny himself all ungodliness, and every worldly lust, and keep my commandments.' (Matthew 16:26.)" (Daniel Ludlow, A Companion to Your Study of the Book of Mormon, p. 223)
Neal A. Maxwell
"What are we to deny ourselves? 'It is better that ye should deny yourselves of these things wherein ye will take up your cross, than that ye should be cast into hell.' (3 Nephi 12:30.) 'These things' in this utterance of Jesus included a recitation of the sensual or selfish. Without such denial, we carry too much baggage. Alas, being overloaded, we then shed not the baggage, but the cross!" (Meek and Lowly, p. 95)