This verse, more than any other, shows the great love and concern that father Lehi had for Laman and Lemuel. Nephi accurately portrays the anguish of soul felt by parents with wayward children. It is probably the same anguish that Father in Heaven feels when we are sinful and disobedient.
Lehi's difficulty with his children is similar to many parents today. Many parents have worked hard to teach their children righteous principles and bring them up in the Lord only to find their children despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection (Rom 1:30). Parents often make the mistake of second guessing their efforts, blaming themselves, or losing hope when faced with wayward children. Laman and Lemuel had good parents, and yet, by their agency, they were disobedient to the commandments of the Lord. They had an "attitude" problem. Lehi never gave up on his sons, even when a vision had shown him that they would not partake of eternal life. Lehi did not waste time blaming himself or Sariah, but rather spent his time exhorting them with all the feeling of a tender parent.
"The restored gospel of Jesus Christ is a message of hope, a voice of consolation. More than anything else, the gospel message sets forth the eternal truth that our Father loves us, that he is concerned with our welfare, that he will do all he can to ensure our happiness and well-being, and that no one will be forgotten or overlooked. The primary responsibility to teach the gospel to children rests with their parents, not with the Church or any of its auxiliaries. Nevertheless there are those children who, despite the best efforts of their parents, will choose to stray from their teachings and example. Though their hearts will ache, there is reason for faithful parents, whose children are heirs of the covenant, to have hope even for those who wander. 'When a seal is put upon the father and mother, it secures their posterity, so that they cannot be lost, but will be saved by virtue of the covenant of their father and mother' (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 321).
"Elder Orson F. Whitney expounded on this great doctrine of hope:
"'The Prophet Joseph Smith declared-and he never taught more comforting doctrine-that the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity. Though some of the sheep may wander, the eye of the Shepherd is upon them, and sooner or later they will feel the tentacles of Divine Providence reaching out after them and drawing them back to the fold. Either in this life or the life to come, they will return. They will have to pay their debt to justice; they will suffer for their sins; and may tread a thorny path; but if it leads them at last, like the penitent Prodigal, to a loving and forgiving father's heart and home, the painful experience will not have been in vain. Pray for your careless and disobedient children; hold on to them with your faith. Hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God.' (In Conference Report, April 1929, p. 110.)" (McConkie, Millet, Joseph Smith, the Choice Seer, chap. 20)